You know what makes things hard when you are wanting to better yourself. What other people think you should do. Matter of opinion from others is not the way to heal yourself. It makes you feel like you are being pulled in several different directions. Then your brain and it’s run away thought syndrome starts taking over. Holy cow! Talk about the struggle cause, damn.

It’s mental warfare at its best. Because when you think you want to go with one way NOPE it wont be right to someone. Then you feel guilty for considering that. Then you question yourself and think I am doing something wrong. Then you change what you are going to do and NOPE that is not right either. This back and forth gets exhausting.

Maybe you should take a step back, away from all the noise of others opinions. This is too many hands in the pot. Find a safe quiet space and meditate, journal, listen to some music, and relax. You will feel what is going to be best for you if you settle down enough to feel it. This is why it is important to surround yourself with like minded individuals. This is a good time to do something that you enjoy.

Remember at the end of the day the “Matter of opinion” that is most important is yours. What feels right to you? Does it resonate with you? It’s time to tune in, feel, and listen to what your spirit is showing you. You might surprise yourself! Until next time C